The sense I’m getting right now is that many of us are weary and restless. We do see some optimistic signs with the Governor’s phased re-opening plan, but many of us are still skeptical about what the future holds. Please do note that we are still in the process of coming up with our own phased re-opening plan for us to worship live in person, but we are bound by the Governor’s guidelines for what will be allowed for all houses of worship.
Phase One allows churches with their own facilities to re-open with social distancing guidelines, but since we don’t own our own facility, we will need to wait until hotels (like the Revere) are given permission to re-open, which will most likely be during Phase Two of the plan.
For this week’s letter, I’d like to share an article I wrote a couple of years ago on the topic of lament. The article, originally published here, comes from my study on the book of Micah and the subsequent book I authored, Micah for You. The practice of lament is a biblical response we can make in our weariness over the pandemic and to the many ugly conditions of our fallen world which we experience every day, namely various sorts of sins, injustices perpetrated to every human life, hatred, disunity, immorality, godlessness, wickedness and idolatry (cf. Gal 5:19-21; Col 3:5). Let us learn to lament well together during this period of weariness and restlessness.
Rediscovering the Lost Art of Lament
How does God want us to deal with the great difficulties of life? Does he want us to ignore them, to get over them, to power through them, or to be crushed by them?
He wants us to lament over them. That is the great lesson of a little-read passage in the Old Testament prophet, Micah. Following Micah, we will see that God actually invites his people to lament over them. He wants us to honestly assess what we’re seeing, and also to pour out our great sorrow to him at what we see.
The Reality of Lament
What is lament? Lament is a passionate expression of grief and sorrow— to mourn, to grieve, to beat one’s breast in anguish. A lament is not whining, complaining, griping, or grumbling. It is to say, “Woe is me!” (Micah 7:1): What misery is mine. It sums up the feeling of a grieving mother who has lost a child, or of a widow or widower facing their spouse’s funeral, or of a conquered nation. “Woe is me!” is only used in the most dire, grim, ruinous circumstances.
The Bible is not ashamed of lament. In the Psalms, 60 of the 150 are categorized as lament psalms—40%. There is one book in the Bible that is devoted to laments, and it is aptly named Lamentations. Why does the Bible embrace a lament? Because it is honest about human experience. It doesn’t settle for some superficially shallow way of describing what’s going on, as if to pretend that suffering is not serious or that it is just an illusion. We, too, must learn to meaningfully and honestly express the anguish of our hearts, if we are to avoid superficiality or pretense.
Lamenting and Hoping
Micah found many reasons to lament as he looked at Jerusalem in his day. First, godliness had disappeared because godly people seemed to have vanished: “the godly has perished from the earth” (v 2). Second, leaders were corrupt: “the prince and the judge ask for a bribe, and the great man utters the evil desire of his soul” (v 3). Third, society itself seemed to have gone rotten and trust was always misplaced: “put no trust in a neighbor; have no confidence in a friend … a man’s enemies are the men of his own house” (v 5-6). Perhaps some or all of those are not so far from our experience of life today!
So how are we supposed to respond? What does Micah do? He laments: “Woe is me!” (v 1). And then he hopes as he laments: “But as for me, I will look to the Lord; I will wait for the God of my salvation; my God will hear me” (v 7). This is how God’s people respond to the great difficulties of life. We lament, and we hope in our lament.
Melted by His Lament
Of course, Micah was not the last prophet to look at Jerusalem and lament—in Luke 19:41-42 Jesus wept over Jerusalem, and for the same reasons as Micah. And on the cross, we see Jesus’ greatest lament: “My God, my God, why have you forsaken me?” (Mark 15:34; Psalm 22:1). He did not cry out for a physical remedy, but for the nearness of God. He cried out for his presence.
But where was God? Where was God’s fatherly care? Could he not have rescued his Son, or have come close to him? Yes, of course he could—but Father and Son both knew what needed to be done. Jesus had to go through this guilt-bearing process for people who could not save themselves. For this, the Father and Jesus experienced the reality of the separation that we face eternally. For this, Jesus cried out the most heartrending lament in all of history.
What causes pain over a separation? It is the depth of the relationship that you are being distanced from, and the length of time that you have been together with the other person. The greater the depth of the bond and the longer the time you have spent together, the worse the parting is. Scripture tells us that God the Father and God the Son were together in perfect unity, enjoying each other’s company and love, for eternity. Imagine the pain that comes in severing a bond like this!
This place where Jesus experienced forsakenness—this place of ultimate lament—is where we need to come when we are lamenting. When we cry out to God for his help, we can look to the cross and know that God will not turn his back on us. God’s rejection is what Jesus has already experienced, in our place. Jesus’ prayer for his Father’s nearness was rejected so that we can know that our prayers seeking nearness to him will never be rejected.
We need to let this truth of what Jesus has done for us melt our hearts and cause us to wait, to look, to slow down, to process, and to lament ourselves. We lament in a confident sadness, knowing that our prayers will be heard because Jesus’ prayer of, “My God, my God, why have you forsaken me?” was not heard. Through the cross, we are invited to run to our Father to let out our cries of lament. Because of Jesus, we can know that our lament is heard. We can cry our laments in hope, knowing that we cry to a Father who will never turn his face away. And so, whatever the cause of our lament—and there will be many, and they will cut deep—we always can say to ourselves, to others, and to God:
“As for me, I will look to the Lord;
I will wait for the God of my salvation;
My God will hear me.” (Micah 7 v 7; emphasis mine)
I hope this article was a blessing to you. Please join me tonight for a special “Wednesdays with Pastor Um” session at 7:00 p.m. I’ll be joined by Cullen Buie, a Ruling Elder at Citylife, to discuss the topic of race and justice through a gospel lens. Go back to the latest Citylife News email, subscribe to our weekly Newsletter here or join our Citylife Social FB group to find the meeting login info.